Fuse 43 finally worked its magic.

Left it out for 3 days straight without driving the car at all.... plugged it back in and everything seems to work fine now.... cluster, radio, backup sensor and camera.
Very strange but am very relieved that everything is back to normal now.

Now, just have to fix that damn headlight washer jet cover that came off while the washers were being used.

Called around to every BMW dealer in Phx, Az and they say it'll be $90 shipped and painted. sheesh

Annoying fix to have. May try and remove fuse 51 to keep them deactivated. Hindsight, if I could order the car new, i'd most likely opt for heated seats without the cold weather package