I think my issue with poly tranny mounts was not pairing them with poly engine mounts. It felt weird (unbalanced maybe is the right word?), and made quite a rumble in the car. It wasn’t loud, but the shifter shook a bit.
The reason I say I’m more tolerant to NVH than most is because I’m single, no kids, seldom have passengers, and track my car. Meaning I have nobody in the car to make comfortable. My car drones, it’s stiff, it’s not quiet in the car, and my brakes squeal like a mofo. And while I really liked the crisp feeling of the poly tranny bushings it just wasn’t something I wanted to live with every day during the weeks or months between my track days.