I don't agree with these statements. OE pads are junk on the track; they fade after just a few laps, and brake fade seriously ruins the fun and increases the poo-in-pants factor tenfold. When I was FIRST starting out, first few times on the track, I was already cooking the stock pads, and even then I wasn't pushing it close to how much I push it now. Since he's staying on the street, OE pads are perfectly fine though, so this is a non-issue.BP knows what's up here. If you change out to a slightly more agressive pad on stock calipers and keep the OEM rotors, she'd be happy. If you felt the brakes fade, you are either using too much braking, or are over-driving your setup. If one dials it back from 10/10ths to 8/10ths, stock pads or upgrades pads should work fine for spirited or HPDE drives.
A car does not need to be set up for track use. This is a very common misconception, and I personally discourage the action of "setting up" the car when going to your few few track events. It is best to know what the car can do in its stock form, and even that takes a while to master before ever having to change anything on the car. All you need is a car that will pass a tech inspection (and of course is safe to drive) and you're good to go. Some people don't go fast enough to even cook the stock pads the first few times out, but I imagine in your case your skill level is higher than your average Joe considering your training.
The 135i pistons are notorious for cracking. They are ceramic coated, and with any kind of serious heat, they crack, requiring replacement of the piston. The most common "fix" for this is stainless steel pistons, which is what I had in my calipers before I sold them. Once again, this is not an issue for street-only driven cars 99% of the time.Did you have issues with them? Just curious as I hadn't heard of this until now.